We’ve been home now for a few days. Getting home after being away for a month is a process. Check the house, clean up the yard, re-set your air and take the long hose off the de-humidifier in the basement, spend significant time with the kids and the grand boys, do laundry, and settle back into our life. All of which we’ve done, including re-organizing our garage and buying our second car, a scooter.
Life is beautiful.
The trip was fantastic this time. We both kept commenting on how relaxed we were. No house in Oregon to deal with, other than visiting the rentals, no running around like crazy people. We made the conscious decision to spend most of our time at Mom’s place helping out on the farm and just being there, hanging out with her. It was lovely. Dinners on the patio, sleeping in the tent trailer she’d so nicely set up to be “our space” while we were there, helping her do some projects at the house, going to the movies with her and my bro, playing chuck-it with the pups under the walnut trees, and generally just being mellow. We spent 13 days driving, in total, there and back which was also fun this time. And we spent a few days at the beach with the kids and the grand boys who’d flown out so Mary could be in a wedding. The time at the beach was also wonderful. Sebastian’s first time seeing the ocean and walking on the beach. Pure magic. Every little thing a new and exciting adventure for him, and in turn for us, watching it through his experience. We got to see some of our friends, and help one celebrate turning the big 5-0. Some even came to visit us at the farm. I got to spend time with the other six. So great to see them all. It’s not often all seven siblings get together. I love them.
We didn’t see everyone we would’ve liked to, and we didn’t hit all of our favorite restaurants, but what we managed we loved. Every single minute. Somehow the time flies by and though a month was a long time to be away from here, it seems as though it’s never enough time there. It’s amazing how a person can be ready to go home, but not want to leave all at the same time.
Without rambling on and on too much more I’m going to do what I did the last time we took a major road trip… I’m going to list the highlights. Fun for me, and hopefully fun to read. Here goes…
- 6475 miles put on the rental car. It had 7900 when we picked it up. We almost doubled what it had. Nice.
- Animals spied… Big Horn Sheep, Coyote, Cows, Antelope, Sheep, Cranes, White Pelican, Turkey Vultures, Horses, Buffalo, and your regular dogs and cats.
- The Boardman Plantation… 24,000 acres of Pacific Albus… wow.
- Watching Sebastian collect rocks at the beach.
- Music played on the road… sometimes loud with us singing along.
- How gorgeous this country is, most particularly Colorado and Western Wyoming… wow.
- The decision to take the roads less traveled and see places we wouldn’t normally see. Hwy 20/26 is worth the drive people. So is Colorado highway 114. Just gorgeous.
- Best coffee… Mud House in Springfield, MO and the Coffee Trader in Montrose, CO.
- The surprising beauty of Northern Nebraska.
- World’s Largest Fork, Springfield, MO.
- Huge legs in Amarillo… nowhere to be found. We looked, but apparently we looked in the wrong place.
- Walking the fishing docks in old town Newport and hitting the aquarium with the kids, grand boys, and Thomas. K spending time with both of her kids was a joy to behold. Amazing what can happen when they both, the kids I mean, are finally living back in the U.S.
- Cadillac Ranch, Amarillo, TX…. as expected, and not. Used up spray cans everywhere, people spray painting them as we walked around the big dirt field they were in, big crowds, iconic, cool, strange, a tad zany, and worth it for the photographs.
- Seeing friends and spending some time.
- A fun and fine 5oth birthday party.
- Sleeping in the tent trailer while it rained.
- Craters of the Moon National Monument. Strange and beautiful and other worldly.
- Signs on old bars, restaurants, gas stations, etc. on small highways = awesome.
- Air conditioning in a car and hotel room when it’s hot as hell outside.
- How great the dogs were during this trip. They traveled so well. The water bowl we were able to have for them in the car helped a lot, as did their comfy beds.
- Realizing we both like motor lodges better than fancy hotels when traveling across country. Fancy/expensive definitely isn’t always better.
- Trailer shopping with Mom and Kev. We ended up finding the Hood River model of the R-Pod Trailer we will be purchasing next year. Whoop!
- Finally getting to visit Santa Fe, NM.
- Being able to check off two more to-visit U.S. states on this trip…. New Mexico and Texas. Had been to airports in Texas before, but I can’t count that as an actual visit to a state. Leaving only Alaska, Connecticut, Maryland, Delaware, West Virginia, North Carolina, South Carolina, Mississippi, Alabama, and Louisiana. Next road trip through the southern states perhaps?
- Selling Dent, the Toyota Tacoma truck I’d had for 15 years. Sad, but I was ready. The sale afforded me the ability to buy a scooter here in Illinois. Moving forward is a good thing.
- Yelp. I use it all the time when we travel to find funky coffee shops and restaurants for dinner. It rocks. I recommend it.
- Spending the day with my siblings. The seven of us rarely get together and it was wonderful hanging out with them for a drizzly day at the beach. I’m lucky to have them and to be part of such a great group of peeps.
- Deciding to not stop and sit in the saddle of one of the World’s Largest Jackalopes in Douglas, Wyoming. We should have gone back and done it. We did see it however. It was big.
- Deciding not to stop at Hell’s Half Acre because the road construction made it slightly difficult and we were only 40 miles from our destination for the night. Next time.
- Time spent alone with my honey. We love being together, all the time. It was wonderful getting to have yet another adventure with her. Nothing like traveling with my best friend and the love of my life.
- Laughing until we cried several times as we both attempted to take photographs from the car going 65 miles an hour. Sometimes we got what we were after, many times we didn’t. Either way we had fun. Getting it was victory and celebrated, not getting it became a recurring joke. We find fun in the smallest of things.
- How many times two people can say, “this is beautiful, wow, look at that” in a one month period.
- Wandering the Portland Saturday Market with our friend Vicki. It was raining slightly on and off, but it was also loads of fun. Plus, we bought soap.
- Ruby Jewel Scoops Ah Joy sundae. It is the best ice cream sundae I’ve ever had and whenever I’m in Portland it’s a must have.
- Pasta and dinner with Thomas at Piazza Italia in Portland. My honey dreams of their lasagna. It’s perfectly wonderful. Plus the company of Thomas was so very cool. What a great kid (sure, he’s 27, but you know… a kid is a kid) he is. International Patent Law here he comes.
- Sunshine and no humidity. The weather was pretty much perfect while we were traveling. Only too hot and humid a couple of days on our way back to the Midwest.
- Being so relaxed. It was awesome.
- Love of friends and family we got to see, missing the family and friends we didn’t get to see.
It was a wonderful trip this year. Stupendous. Terrific. Really great. So good we’re already planning our trip out next year.