I imagine him, smiling, moving quickly from one project to another, eyes sparkling like only his did, laughing that fantastically gregarious laugh. I imagine him surrounded by his children, their spouses, his grandchildren, his wife. He is drinking coffee, with cream and loads of sugar, and eating a cheese sandwich. His hair is gray, it went that way early, which is something he passed to the seven of his children, and his clunky black glasses are perched on his nose. He’s wearing a pair of polyester pants, some funky loafers, a knit polo shirt, and some off-color windbreaker. He’s legally blind, but you’d never know it by the way he zips around, managing to never run into anything. His spirit, which has always been joyful and silly and free, is a big presence in this space. He fills it. I imagine him giving me a hug, so tight, full of all the things he could never really say. Afterward he sits down at his pedal steel guitar and he plays. Man, does he play. His skill is unmatched, his notes hitting with perfection, and his smile gets even bigger, if that’s possible. Then he begins to sing….
Today would’ve been my dad’s 71st birthday. He’s been gone for nearly 8 years now. I miss him still….
Happy birthday, Dad.